If I don't like them then, I can quit. She initially acted as though she was excited (she's wanted to move-in together for a long time and I've been ambivalent). I have been with my husband for seven years and he has been a non smoker the entire time, or at least what I thought to be the entire time. I am supposed to quit soon according to my husband. Mostly trough school but some of my closest friends also happened to be my neighbors. My husband quit and then started again and then quit again and finally took to smoking out of sight. But there is truth. He was a smoker and it always made me want to smoke with him. He is stressed out and under pressure so he is smoking. We really clicked and started dating. Regina-Phalange. my wife stayed its 2:30 time for my smoke. I recently married the most amazing man in the whole world, "Jeremy." One day, my very healthy athletic My husband smokes weed every day. One night my husband offered me a puff of his cigarette and I took it. My story is more about how I succumbed to temptation and how I started smoking again. So my resolution is to start smoking some full-flavor cigarette and continue until I'm smoking at least 5 a day. He's smart, thoughtful, kind, and sexy - I love him. Getting wife to smoke. Never over a pack and a half. Date Posted: 00:06:13 02/06/02 Wed. In reply to: Ron 's message, "Re: How I started smoking at age 40" on 23:56:58 02/05/02 Tue. He was a smoker and it always made me want to smoke with him. I began when I was 13 and smoke a pack and a half a day of Benson and Hedges. Tell your spouse how you feel. This was a bit of a shock coming from him, he is a health nut! Now, often, I smoke multiple times a day. You absolutely do! I have been feeling very stressed for a while now and fed up about everything. Many moons ago, my husband started smoking (he didn't when we met), he got really bad at one point and would be going out to smoke in our garden every hour or so. My wife used to smoke a half pack a day of Marlboro Reds. Unless you completely avoid all levels of closeness and intimacy in your relationship, smoking is a habit that leaves traces on even the most careful person. Now I smoke a pack a day, on a good stress-free day. smokingagain Wed 30-Apr-03 22:58:14. My extended family smoked and is smokingagain Wed 30-Apr-03 22:58:14. Kudos to you for wanting to! My extended family smoked and is now dying from it. In reply to: Ron 's message, "Re: How I started smoking at age 40" on 23:56:58 02/05/02 Tue. I'm really excited by this. Except for me. I will rise above the smoke. Please don't start actually smoking and inhaling. So my resolution is to start smoking some full-flavor cigarette and continue until I'm smoking at least 5 a day. In addition, second hand smoke, inhaled by those around the individual who is smoking is equally dangerous to health. After I had been smoking about three months, my husband had semi-emergency surgery. Kicking snow over my ashes, I head inside, washing my hands at the kitchen sink. I quit smoking right before we met. In addition, second hand smoke, inhaled by those around the individual who is smoking is equally dangerous to health. After wed been together about 8 months and, at times, he had tried to persuade me to try a cigarette, id got to the point where i was becoming quite irritable about him smoking. In fact, smoking makes Alzheimer's less likely. When my husband and I started dating three years ago, we both had a strong opposition to smoking. We really clicked and started dating. I was kind of freaked at first. My husband recently revealed his smoking fetish fantasy. Sep 10, 2018 at 9:57 PM. (13 Posts) Add message | Report. On week days when he gets home from work and on weekends usually after lunch. I actually didn't start smoking until after I started nursing school (been smoking approx 15 months). He nevers does that. Smoking of any kind is nearly impossible to hide, especially from your spouse. That is not news. She stands in a tight dress as she Skypes with her boyfriend and tells him how much she misses him and that she has a surprise for him. :rolleyes: I think Ill smoke for a while more and thn quit. If possible, speak to his friends who can help him face stressful situations easily. Now, while I still smoke, I might smoke that in a week. Answer (1 of 4): Why does everyone assume its her and their relationship? I started because of my boyfriend, hed always smoked and, though i wasnt anti smoking, i wasnt a particular fan either but i tolerated my boyfriend smoking. 2. 9. I smoke a pack a day, same brand. Dogzilla October 3, 2000, 2:06pm #8. Started smoking again!! Date Posted: 00:06:13 02/06/02 Wed. We are both non-smokers and she is very anti-smoking and has nagged her father to quit for years. Friday.co worker stated no try looking in top desk drawer, wife wrote. It's rotten that he started smoking again after so long but it's actually really, really good that he's switched to vaping. I have been feeling very stressed for a while now and fed up about everything. I got pregnant (unplanned) and he promised he'd quit - and he did quit until our baby was about 6 months old.. I would think they are ways you could indulge him in this fantasy without endangering your health. At one point I was up to half a pack a day of Marlboro's, but I was able to cut back alot on my own. I am starting to feel good about myself again. Then he made me start smoking because he said he thought it was sexy. Then recently he went back to smoking. My story is more about how I succumbed to temptation and how I started smoking again. Dear Abby: I am a 28-year-old female. I would think they are ways you could indulge him in this fantasy without endangering your health. This was a bit of a shock coming from him, he is a health nut! Keep the home environment happy. I'm really excited by this. After wed been together about 8 months and, at times, he had tried to persuade me to try a cigarette, id got to the point where i was becoming quite irritable about him smoking. That is the critical phase, and around 95% fail at that point. The nicotine withdrawal of the last 5 days has been physically tough: Nausea, sweats, headaches, and a feeling of emptiness. His smoking costs us almost $4,000 a year. Anyway I started smoking socially again as that was the only way I could handle him smoking, I know that many people on here will think I am off my rocker and maybe I am a bit weird but for some reason while I was with him and I was smoking too I could tolerate the disgusting habit. Dear Harriette: I am at my wits end. He has been working out of state for the last six months and during date night Saturday night he casually disclosed to me that he's been smoking one cigarette a day for the last five About 15 months ago, I started seeing a new guy. He asked one evening for me to smoke during sex, I did he absolutely loved it. By Anonymous Jan 20, 2018 If your husband or wife comes to you and says they are going to start using pot and you are uncomfortable with that, ideally they should submit to your opinion and avoid using marijuana. Then, 9 months ago, he told me he had a smoking fetish. back saying not there any place else,co worker stated try filing. PlentyOfPubeGardens Fri 26-Jun-15 21:11:47. You can ask every smoker what would be the one wish they could have granted and 95% of them would respond "I wish I never started smoking". I'm a smoker and i absolutely hate it. My only issue is, Jeremy has an obsession/fetish with women smoking cigarettes. After months of no success, he finally relented. So I did because I loved him so much that I would do anything for him. (13 Posts) Add message | Report. You can put the effects of your partners smoking into perspective by doing the following:Provide a cost analysis. Discuss how this habit isolates them and even you from social situations that dont allow smoking.Express that you want to live a long life with them in it, and youre concerned that their smoking wont make that possible. In the bathroom, I spritz some lavender body spray and walk through the mist. We connect, communicate, understand and love everything about each other. About a year after that I would notice different porn on his computer. It could be your husband is going through something hes internalized and smoking gives him some stress relief. He always had a smoking fetish as a child and was helplessly addicted to it. I stayed with him prior to going into surgery. Answer (1 of 16): Hi Im Lacis wife. OT: Husband started smoking. Anyway, the more I think about it the more excited I get -- and it will blow my husband's mind. Here we go! He's smart, thoughtful, kind, and sexy - I love him. His parents smoked, and he hated it. How Should I Respond To My Husband When He Badgers Me To Start Smoking To Satisfy His Cigarette Fetish? My wife has started smoking, and the image of her doing that eats me up. In one of the posts from this Reddit user, not only does he hate seeing his spouse smoke, but its actually making him think about separation.For something thats supposed to relieve stress, smoking can eventually destroy a relationship. We both agreed we would NOT smoke. Let him indulge in activities that make him happy, even if you may dislike it. Stay physically active to help ease bodily tension.Let friends and family members know when you need support or space.Avoid situations that you find anxiety-provoking, such as loud, crowded parties.Practice relaxation techniques, such as meditation.Establish sleep rituals and avoid caffeine too close to bedtime. I quit 15 years ago for 4 years. The next scene takes place 2 weeks after she started smoking and Amber has learned how to smoke sexy. I was so naive that I had never heard of it. Cathy started smoking cigarettes years ago for her smoker husband named Paul. We connect, communicate, understand and love everything about each other. One of the biggest triggers of smoking habit is stress. I had not ever smoked weed in my life. If I don't like them then, I can quit. He made this wonderful promise that he would quit because he knew it bothered me before we got married. I have a fiery determination and indefinite patience to remain free from smoking. We both smoked for 1-2 months and finally I told her I wanted her to stop smoking and go to therapy before we moved in together. break,co worker said OK.a few minutes later my wife wrote asking. I started because of my boyfriend, hed always smoked and, though i wasnt anti smoking, i wasnt a particular fan either but i tolerated my boyfriend smoking. My husband recently revealed his smoking fetish fantasy. Then, 9 months ago, he told me he had a smoking fetish. My husband wasn't a smoker when we met. 1. He actually bought an external hard drive for his computer because his collection of porn got so huge. Or so he thought. Scene 2: Skyping With Her Boyfriend. Then they had a delay. I had one last night and it felt so good, i've had 3 today. I was trying to get pregnant and then I did and stayed quit. Now two years later my baby is a beautiful healthy child, my husband has a great job, and he smokes two packs a week. There are lots of possible reasons for this. Anyway I started smoking socially again as that was the only way I could handle him smoking, I know that many people on here will think I am off my rocker and maybe I am a bit weird but for some reason while I was with him and I was smoking too I could tolerate the disgusting habit. Hope You All Enjoy.Please Subscribe. Do you want him to have a habit when he comes come, constantly smoking indoors, or going outside for a smoke, smelling like dirt, constantly needing to go buy more cigs or tabacco, etc. I love being a smoker. But I'm a closet smoker. So, the first thing you should tell him is that hes not alone. My husband and I got into a habit in the evening of sitting out in the garden in the lovely cool summers and talking. and co worker/smoker. Before she started smoking, she was a good girl.Young, athletic, brilliant, a strong member of the 8th grade pom team, and a normal student. Then came high school, and with it, influences beyond her wildest imagination.New people, new sensations, havin' a party life. A smoke every now and then helps mellow things out.Then came marijuana, and boy what a rush that was! When I first started smoking cigarettes in my early 20s, it just kind of happened a cigarette here and there, usually at a bar, sometimes on Sorry I have very strong feelings about this. This was upsetting to me but because I understood how stressed he was I didnt want to put more pressure on him. Answer (1 of 4): Most of the smokers that stop cold turkey go back to smoking six months to one year after they stopped. She initially acted as though she was excited (she's wanted to move-in together for a long time and I've been ambivalent). Answer (1 of 16): Hi Im Lacis wife. Perfectly normal, my sissy husband loves watching me smoke. Started smoking again!! Sep 10, 2018 at 9:57 PM. It didnt take him much to do it. Two years ago he started smoking again. Hi everyone. As you must know cigarette smoking is known to cause cancer and is considered dangerous to ones health. I always thought he was a big anti-smoker. I loved to see her smoke. I was kind of freaked at first. Something A Bit Different. Growing up, I had a lot of friends. By Anonymous Jan 20, 2018 Rewards work well for successful stints without smoking.Aversion therapy (like Pavlok) can help to quit the habit.Determining and avoiding the habits and behaviors that lead to smoking. John Barleycorn. She reveals a cigarette and lights it up for him. He eventually agreed to quit when I said I didn't really like it and was worried about his health. I quit smoking right before we met. Got my Husband to start smoking. One day, he decided to fulfill this fetish by getting his wife to start the habit of smoking. It was incredibly romantic and relaxing and a wonderful time. He asked one evening for me to smoke during sex, I did he absolutely loved it. His parents smoked, and he hated it. It's a descent into a vastly inferior lifestyle. Unfortunately, I think we have to eliminate this option straight away. Please don't start actually smoking and inhaling. The only way you can get a sure answer is by talking to him. In fact, smoking makes Alzheimer's less likely. I selfishly wanted her to smoke more. coworker,if she remember where she 'hid her cigarettes and lighter on. I stayed with him prior to going into surgery. When he got back from deployment, he confessed he did smoke and had started when he deployed. I started smoking at work and while driving, on a regular basis. My husband and I got into a habit in the evening of sitting out in the garden in the lovely cool summers and talking. Let's rewind a little. About 15 months ago, I started seeing a new guy. I was so naive that I had never heard of it. He was in-between jobs, my baby got meningitis and life was stressful. My husband and I are in our fifties and have been very happily married for 32 years. Try and keep the home stress free and joyful. Sometimes more. After I had been smoking about three months, my husband had semi-emergency surgery. I recently married the most amazing man in the whole world, 'Jeremy.'. Regina-Phalange. Perfectly normal, my sissy husband loves watching me smoke. We both smoked for 1-2 months and finally I told her I wanted her to stop smoking and go to therapy before we moved in together. We recently had this fight and right after the argument we went to a restaurant and he ordered a beer. I always thought he was a big anti-smoker. Hi everyone. Then they had a delay. We dont know you, him, your marriage or your current situation so I had one last night and it felt so good, i've had 3 today. I have been with my husband for seven years and he has been a non smoker the entire time, or at least what I thought to be the entire time. Only show this user. When i met him he said he'd quit but then it started again and i realised it was an every day thing. I would do everything in my power to have her quit. Keep in mind, oddly enough, these "closest friends" were not in my school. I have impressionable teens in my house. Ask him why he all of a sudden wants to be an inferior person. 6. level 1. That was years ago now. I have had this nagging desire to go out and buy cigarettes for a few weeks and yesterday I did! farside said: My wife and I have been married for seven years and over the course of our relationship I have kept something from her: I have a fetish for women that smoke. He has eliminated almost all the harm from smoking so try to support him in this if you at all can. My husband Eric has smoked a pack a day (or more) since I met him. MsLonely. She was 17, I was 19, and it was hopelessly romantic to smoke cigarettes and talk all night. As you must know cigarette smoking is known to cause cancer and is considered dangerous to ones health. Anyway, the more I think about it the more excited I get -- and it will blow my husband's mind. In the past seven years, Ive watched as signs of his habit slowly creep across his boyish face, his working mans hands, his gentle smile. And let me state upfront here- -you have a right to an opinion. Other girls smoking. But I'm horrendously addicted to them. After we got married, I thought it would be nice if he could share smokes with me, so I started coaxing him to try it. Kudos to you for wanting to! When my husband and I started dating three years ago, we both had a strong opposition to smoking. 1 Ask your husband to stop smoking for the sake of those around him, chiefly you and your son. HUSBAND IS NOT COURTEOUS WHEN SMOKING POT. I have had this nagging desire to go out and buy cigarettes for a few weeks and yesterday I did! She is so sexy when she smokes. Oct 28, 2012. I also started my wife smoking, back when we first started dating. Mar 18, 2008. My husband is a pot smoker. I want my husband to keep chain smoking, said no wife ever.